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Self-harm is increasingly common among male teens. How can you tell if your son has begun hurting himself? Read below for the facts about cutting, burning and other forms of teen self-harm.

1. Individual Therapy

ARCH Academy places great emphasis on creating a space for therapy to work specifically with adolescent males. In doing so, evidenced-based traditional approaches are integrated into treatment in order to help the teen heal and grow emotionally, physically and spiritually. During this dedicated time, the young man is expected to push himself. He will be given the opportunity to explore areas of his life and personhood that may have been hidden or received little attention.

2. Group Therapy

At ARCH Academy, one of the most impactful experiences that a resident has is walking through this process with others he can relate to and understand. The communal experience of regular group therapy fosters closeness, safety and transparency.

3. Family Therapy

ARCH Academy approaches the treatment of addiction from a family perspective. Accepting the disease of addiction is a family disease is the first step in the healing, growth and ongoing success of the resident and his family.


As a parent, you hope to raise a son who is happy and successful – who has a strong sense of identity and high self-esteem. Unfortunately, the teenage years are a period of insecurity, turbulent emotions and inner turmoil that can result in choices that parents do not understand. Chief among these are substance abuse and self-harm. 

Self-harm, also called non-suicidal self-injury (NSSI), is a pattern of intentionally cutting, burning, scratching or picking at the skin which is tied to strong emotions. Teens may use many different methods to harm themselves, but the goal is usually the same: to alleviate pain, cry out for help or break through feelings of numbness.

Self-harming behaviors are not strongly linked with suicidal behavior. However, they are connected to substance abuse and mental illness. When you believe that your son has begun to cut, burn or wound himself intentionally, it is time to seek professional help.


Self-injury often begins in middle school. Boys may learn of this behavior from television shows, music, or the internet. It is also common for teens and tweens to learn about self-harm from their peers – this is actually one of the primary risk factors for youth self-injury.


It is estimated that one in eight people has engaged in some type of self-harming behavior, and studies show that this issue is becoming more common as time goes on. What puts someone at risk of non-suicidal self-injury?

Some people are at a higher risk for self-harm than others. For example, teenagers are the demographic most likely to cut, burn, or scratch themselves habitually. They are dealing with strong emotions but may lack the ability to express these feelings to parents or peers. Non-diagnosed mental illness, substance use and interpersonal issues are also factors that may influence self-injury. For these boys, self-harm serves as an outlet for chaotic, overwhelming emotions. 

The catalysts of this behavior are myriad and may overlap. Common causes include:


Few things are more frightening than learning that your child may have a problem with self-harm, addiction or mental illness. If your son is displaying any of the below symptoms of self-injury, we encourage you to seek immediate professional help.

Signs of teen self-harm:

It is important to note that self-harm can also be indirect in nature. In these instances, teenage boys may self-sabotage through risky sexual behavior, heavy alcohol consumption, drug use, or disordered eating. These choices may not leave marks, but they do require clinical intervention.


The first step in helping your son is to educate yourself about self-injurious behaviors. Try to open an avenue of nonjudgemental communication to discuss his emotions and stressors. If this behavior has been going on for some time and is an indicator of deeper issues, you should also enlist professional help. 

At ARCH Academy, we have designed a mental health program specially tailored to teenage boys. We understand what it takes to recover from self-harm, mental illness, and substance use disorders. For more information about our clinical programming, please contact ARCH Academy today.

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